PJ Interviews Cody Young and Becky Klimowicz
February 5, 2012 in Author Interviews
I met Cody and Becky at Tri-State Martial Arts.
They’re one of those couples you just have fun spending time around, whether it’s training or out having a few drinks or watching MMA fights.
Becky is warm and very open. She’s beautiful and of slight build, and has non-stop energy. When we’re working out, she never quits, never stops, and you just have to keep up with her. Even if you knock her down, she’ll always get right back up and pop in a few good hits of her own too.
Cody is a well-rounded, fierce fighter. He listens carefully when you have a question and never hesitates to help demonstrate a new move or give tips on how one could improve. He was one of my favorite people to ask for help whenever I was training at Tri-State.
The love they have for each other is the kind of thing that makes you believe in happily ever afters.
I don’t put people I know into my books. But the two of them, either together or individually, have inspired more than one scene or set of dialog.
PJ: Becky, can you share the story of how/why you started training at TSMAA?
Cody trains so much, I started taking classes at Tri State just so I could spend more time with him. (laughs) Just kidding… mostly. I started out taking the conditioning classes to get in shape. I was terrified at first (and pretty bad!) but everyone was so welcoming and I had a lot of fun so I stuck with it. Eventually, I realized I was actually learning skills and I wanted to improve my game, so I got into the Muay Thai and CSW (Combat Submission Wrestling) programs. Now I take about 7-8 classes a week.
PJ: Cody, you once told me that us girls were too nice to each other in MMA practice. Can you explain why it’s important for us to practice with partners who won’t be nice?
Well if you’re too nice to each other, you might be practicing defenses that won’t be effective when someone’s really coming at you. So in order to reinforce proper technique you need to make sure you have training partners that aren’t too nice, but still maintain control so you’re not hurting each other. Your partner needs to know how to make you feel uncomfortable without putting you in danger.
PJ: Becky, how do you feel about training with the guys? Especially the competitive fighters?
I am often the only girl in the class, so I have to work twice as hard to keep up. It used to be pretty intimidating training with the “big guys”. A lot of them are 6 inches taller and have 50 pounds on me, so I have a disadvantage from the start. But the guys are great. They understand the balance between going hard enough to push me, without overdoing it. I wouldn’t learn anything if they just went easy on me, so I like it when they push my limits. And sometimes that means I get punched in the face or kicked in the stomach, but I’ve learned that I’m a lot tougher than I thought I was.
PJ: Cody, what are the benefits of Becky, and any woman, training in mixed martial arts?
There are benefits for anyone to train in any area of martial arts. The beauty of mixed martial arts is that you’re gonna train on your feet and learn how to defend yourself standing up but also, especially for a woman, learning how to defend yourself on the ground with someone bigger and stronger than you. This is a benefit that you’d get from MMA that you might not get from a traditional form of karate or boxing.
PJ: Becky, can you tell me a little bit more about your passion for running?
I run about 20-25 miles a week, and it’s sort of my therapy, my time to block out the world and be alone with my thoughts. Ask Cody, I get very grouchy when I don’t have time to run.
I started running about 3 years ago, because it was something I hated to do and couldn’t do well and I wanted to challenge myself. Since then, I’ve run a handful of half marathons, and I just finished my first marathon in November – something I would have said was impossible if you had asked me two years ago. Now, I am looking forward to my next marathon, and probably an ultra in the near future.
PJ: Cody, what are your plans for your fighting career?
To win my next fight.
PJ: Cody and Becky, anything you’d like to share/promote? (like upcoming fights, etc)
February 11, I’m fighting for Xtreme Caged Combat at the World’s Gym, 1100 Roosevelt Boulevard in Philly. I’ll be fighting Mike Rogers, hoping for my fourth win. Tickets are $40. (Contact Cody via Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=42605527)
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Mackenzie from Heart’s Sentinel survived a brutal attack by a crazed stalker. She found her strength and learned not to be a victim. Learning to defend yourself is incredibly important.
I’ll be at Tri-State Martial Arts for a free Women’s Self Defense Workshop on Feb. 25th from 2pm- 5pm.
If you’re in the area, you may see me or Cody or Becky there.
I’ll also be giving one attendee a signed print copy of my paranormal romance, Heart’s Sentinel.
Tri-State Martial Arts Academy
1323 E. Lincoln Highway
Levittown, PA






























